By: Monica Stevens
Yasharahla Yahawah, a dynamic public figure and influencer known for her forthrightness and genuine approach, recently delivered a powerful message on self-worth and empowerment for women. Her statement, “Stand on your worth as a woman,” resonates deeply, urging women to prioritize themselves.
“Most women went through the same programming as young girls—get a man and be his wife. Cool, but were men trained to do likewise? Absolutely not,” Yasha asserts. “Most men were programmed to focus on their careers and callings, not on a mate. What this means is there are many women who would drop everything for a mortal man who is not an angel, or drop everything for kids who would have turned out fine either way, in hopes that they put you first too at some point. It is pathetic and makes no sense.”
Yasha’s words illuminate a critical disparity in how societal expectations are placed on men and women. From a young age, many girls are conditioned to prioritize finding a partner and becoming supportive wives, often sidelining their own aspirations and self-worth. Conversely, men are frequently encouraged to pursue their careers and personal callings, with less emphasis on a partner. This discrepancy leads to an imbalance that Yasha passionately critiques.
Her stance is not about devaluing relationships or motherhood but about emphasizing the importance of self-worth and personal fulfillment. Yasha challenges women to rethink their priorities and recognize that their value does not hinge on their relationships with men or their roles as caregivers. “It is alright for men to desire you, but pick and choose. Have a backbone. Think practically, and always put yourself before any man. Retain your value,” Yasha urges. Her call to action is a rallying cry for women to assert their worth and self-respect. She encourages women to be discerning in their relationships, to value themselves highly, and to never compromise their worth for the sake of pleasing others.
Yasha’s reference to the Proverbs 31 woman is particularly striking. Often cited in discussions about virtuous women, the Proverbs 31 woman is celebrated for her diligence, wisdom, and industriousness. Yasha highlights that this iconic figure was praised not for her subservience but for her ability to manage her affairs and contribute significantly to her household and community. “People love to talk about the Proverbs 31 woman as an example of a great traditional wife, but note that a large part of her being virtuous was the fact that she took care of business. She didn’t simp over a man all day. And because of her value, her man praised her, her children praised her, her own works praise her.” Yasha explains.
Yasha underscores that true value and respect come from one’s actions and contributions, not from subservience or sacrificing one’s own dreams. She calls on modern women to embody the same strength, and to focus also on their personal and professional growth. Yasha’s message is particularly poignant in today’s context, her advocacy for self-worth is a reminder that women should not have to choose between personal aspirations and being good partners or mothers—they can and should strive for both.
Yasha uses her platform to share stories of women who have successfully navigated this balance, providing inspiration and practical advice. She encourages women to invest in their personal development, and to view relationships as a complement to their lives rather than the center of their existence. “Be a woman with some worth beyond the household. Even if it’s just periodic involvement at your local charity, be relevant somewhere outside your home. Don’t center your whole life around family, then when you get old you stay by the phone waiting for your kids to call. Have a life.”
“Any man who desires for you to exist only to serve the house is a deeply misguided man. If you notice this during courtship, discuss it with him. If he’s stuck in that mindset, bow out gracefully. You are more valuable than that. There are more where he came from.” she stated. As Yasha Yahawah continues to inspire and advocate for women’s empowerment, her message is clear: Women deserve to prioritize themselves, to pursue their dreams, and to be recognized for their intrinsic value. “Stand on your worth as a woman” is more than just a slogan; it’s a powerful call to action for women everywhere to embrace their strength, and live lives that reflect their true worth.
Published By: Aize Perez
